Create Your Dream AI Girl
How To Design Your Dream AI Girlfriend
What is an AI girlfriend?
An AI girlfriend is a virtual companion built for connection, conversation, and chemistry. With our state-of-the-art models, she remembers your shared history and adjusts to your preferences. Plus, she balances everything to be as spicy or sweet as you want. She has personality and presence, making every chat feel exciting. On Ourdream.ai, you take charge. Design her look, shape her personality, and act out any roleplay or fantasy you desire.
Step 1: Design her look
Select the style - you can create a realistic one or even an AI anime girlfriend. Change every detail including ethnicity, skin tone, eye colour, hair colour and style, body type, breast size, and butt size. Add custom prompts to describe her face and appearance exactly how you picture her.
Realistic
Photorealistic characters with lifelike details and natural features.
Anime
Stylized anime-inspired characters with vibrant expressions.
Step 2: Give her a personality
Select from over 40 personality types or create your own. Assign her a voice from 19 options. Pick an occupation from 135 choices. Add hobbies and fetishes to make her feel real.
40+ personality types
Choose from a wide range or create your own custom personality.
19 voice options
Give her a unique voice that matches her character.
Step 3: Define the relationship
Choose from 29 relationship types. You can pick a flirty stranger or devoted partner. Set the tone for your conversations.
Custom prompting guide
Want more control over your AI character's appearance? Our custom prompt fields let you go beyond the basic presets.
Connect words with underscores
Create single concepts like white_feather_headdress instead of separate words.
Use parentheses for emphasis
Prioritize features like (blue_eyes). Add weights like (freckles:1.3) for precise control.
Keep it short
Skip filler words like "wearing a" and get straight to the point with white_sundress.
Your FAQs, answered
How many messages can I send?
When you sign up for a free account you can send 50 messages to any AI companion you like. Once you upgrade to a premium subscription, you can send unlimited messages.
Is there a free trial?
Yes we offer a free trial. When you sign up for free, you get 55 dreamcoins for free. That allows you to generate up to 10 NSFW images, send up to 55 messages, or create your AI girlfriend — up to 10 AI characters.
Can I customise my AI girlfriend beyond the presets?
Yes you can. If the preset personalities, jobs, or traits don't suit you, feel free to create your own with the custom prompt feature. This is only available as premium subscriber. You get full control to describe her exactly how you want with no limitations.
Where can I roleplay with my AI girlfriend?
Head over to the chat page to chat to your AI character.
Where can I go to create NSFW images of my AI girlfriend?
Head to the AI chat page. Once you've created your AI girlfriend, that's where all your conversations live. Just pick her and start chatting. She'll remember it all, stay in character, and keep the chat going as long as you want.
Can I get my free dreamcoins refunded if I don't like the character generated?
Unfortunately not. Dreamcoins used for generation can't be refunded. Here's the good news: free accounts can create up to 10 characters. So, you have lots of room to experiment until you find an AI companion that works for you.
How much does it cost to generate a character?
5 dreamcoins per character. That covers the full creation—look, personality, voice, the works. Once she's built, your AI girlfriend chatbot is ready to chat with no extra cost per message.
Why is ourdream more expensive than others?
At face value we are more expensive, but if you compare us overall, we're cheaper. On most other platforms, you will spend $20-40+ per month on additional tokens. At ourdream 1,000 dreamcoins is included in the subscription which covers all your needs including videos.